I
met my husband Witold twenty six years ago.
It was a love at the first sight. Today,
after almost twenty-five years of marriage, our love is as fresh and exciting
as at the beginning, only deeper. Years of going successfully together
through all the challenges we were facing straightened our love. We feel
like that every day we love each other even more. We are never bored together,
and can't wait to see each other when we have to be away from each other.
My husband is my best friend, a great man, great lover, great father of
our three sons. |
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| A family is for sure the most important, basic element of the society, a foundation of a sound, happy, prosperous country. It seems such a truism - everybody knows it, many repeat it aloud - in mass media, or privately, most of us deeply believe it - yet not everybody remembers about that in their own life. |
| That's good that a government emphasizes it - there are certain privileges for the families, especially those with kids, compare to the singles. But the situation is far from being satisfactory, and the government alone cannot help it.. |
| In our parents' generation, when we were kids, nobody was telling that much about importance of a family - it was obvious, so it did not require any discussion. Family was a sacrum, and nobody wouldn't even think to doubt it. A government did not maybe have so many programs favoring the family - it was coming rather from the bottom of the society - from the family itself. It was maybe not a very attractive stereotype - a responsible, hard working man -husband trying his best in order to support his family, and a woman - a housewife, taking care about "a family
..". She was trying to make a home "a sweet home". To make it a place where kids would feel safe, loved and happy. A place where husband would be rushing after his job, to find a sweet asylum to relax. And - first of all - kids always had this awareness that there is somebody they can always count on, they can rely on, a role model - a mother showing them how to love, how to care, how to be compassionate, and father - a great teacher of responsibility, of respect, of discipline, of honor. |
| Why was it possible? Of course, we can say there was a different economical situation - a husband could afford to provide a sufficient financial support for his family, so his wife didn't have to go to work. It cannot be an excuse. My both parents were working, working extremely hard, with almost no spare time. Witold's parents were both working as well - many times he could see his father on Sunday only, and for two years he didn't see him at all, because his Dad was on a job contract in Syria. Yet few rare moments with his Dad, short, lapidary remarks he heard from him, had a great impact on his behavior, on his believes, on his entire life. He will always remember and appreciate them, only because they came from the most respected person in his life - his father. |
| We do coaching for almost ten years for people - many times before they even started the family, so they can prevent some mistakes, although a right time to take care of it is when they were children themselves - within their own family. But - never is too late, and we can do a lot by making people aware of the true family values - no matter if they are still kids, or they are parents. |